Valentine's Day. A day of whispered sweet nothings, heart-shaped boxes overflowing with chocolates, and bouquets bursting with vibrant hues. But have you ever stopped to wonder where this celebration of love actually comes from? At The Craft Shoppe’s Library of Reference, we delve into the rich tapestry of traditions and beliefs, and the story of Valentine's Day is a fascinating blend of ancient rituals, Christian lore, and, yes, even some goatskins!

Before cupid's arrows and romantic dinners, February was a time of wild abandon in ancient Rome. Enter Lupercalia, a festival dedicated to fertility, purification, and the she-wolf who, legend says, suckled Romulus and Remus, Rome's founders. Imagine this: priests clad in goatskins, racing through the streets, striking people with strips of goat hide (februa). Far from being an insult, this was believed to bestow fertility and good fortune! Women would even line up to receive these "blessings." Talk about a different kind of love!

While Lupercalia might seem a world away from heart-shaped everything, some historians believe it laid the groundwork for Valentine's Day. Both share a connection to fertility and, in a way, love. However, Lupercalia was a far cry from the refined romance we associate with the holiday today.

Then come the tales of the martyred saints, the Valentines. Several stories intertwine, including a priest who defied the emperor's ban on marriages for soldiers, secretly wedding couples in the name of love. Another legend speaks of a Valentine who befriended his jailer's daughter, leaving her a heartfelt message signed, "from your Valentine," before his execution. These acts of love and defiance resonated, weaving their way into the fabric of the holiday.

Fast forward to the Middle Ages, and we find Geoffrey Chaucer, the renowned poet, connecting Valentine's Day with romance in his works. Suddenly, birds choosing their mates on St. Valentine's Day became a symbol of human love. This romantic association blossomed, leading to the exchange of handwritten valentines, often filled with flowery prose and heartfelt sentiments.

And finally, the commercialization of the 19th century transformed Valentine's Day into the gift-giving extravaganza we know today. Mass-produced cards, chocolates, flowers – all became symbols of affection, readily available for purchase.

So, as you celebrate Valentine's Day this year, remember the rich and complex history behind it. From the wild rituals of Lupercalia to the tender stories of the Valentines, this day is a testament to the enduring power of love in all its forms.

At The Craft Shoppe, we celebrate love in all its forms. Whether you're looking for crystals to amplify your self-love, candles to create a romantic ambiance, or unique gifts to express your affection, we have something to nurture your connections. Explore our collection and discover the magic of love, in all its ancient and modern glory.